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How To Get The Chemistry In Your Marriage Back

Dear children, let us not love with words or speech but with actions and in truth.
John 3:18

Everybody tends to say that two people have chemistry when they are fit for each other. Its more than just a cliché since chemistry can't really be described, it's just the way two people seem to just click. You know you have chemistry with another person when your knees start shaking every time you are near him, and you get all sweaty all the time. Chemistry could be another word for love but in some cases, the chemistry might be gone but love could still be present. That’s why some people would like to revive the chemistry in their marriage because they still love the person and would like to make the marriage better; like the way it used to be when they fell in love with one another.

After a certain period of time, some relationships get past the chemistry and the momentum wanes, you have gone past the “honeymoon period.” Many have strived to get their chemistry back; here are some tips on how to get your chemistry back.

Chemistry can be through physical and emotional

In some marriages, the partners tend to be too relaxed and comfortable with their relationship. They have a tendency to let go of their physical looks. When this happens, one partner may lose their physical attraction and their physical chemistry as well. Some cases have shown that physical chemistry may also be about the great sex they have, when this type of physical chemistry is forgotten and the sex becomes too regular and boring, the physical chemistry may be lost. Loss of attention to the physical attributes and to the physical contact is what causes these problems. Try to get yourself back in shape and try to look good for your partner. This will show that you don’t take your partner for granted and you still want to look good for them.

With emotional chemistry, this could be because we have grown tired with our partner. The routine becomes too routinely. Refresh your emotional chemistry for each other by taking in a new perspective about each other. Take vacations, be open to one another and find a solution on how to bring the sparks back to each other. Try to discover what the both of you want out of the marriage and build on that. Be open to new ideas and never contradict. The less fight the better it is to strengthen the ties that bind you together. If you truly love one another, you will find out how to get the chemistry back in your marriage.

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